Anyone for a Hockey Game?

It would be great to have some of you accompany me to my son's hockey game. My hubby is away and my ex just picked up my oldest son and my daughter, will be bringing K to hockey, and staying to watch. No problem- K is so excited. His dad has never watched him in any activity ever. I have a chink in my armour of "we are all polite, respectful adults here" attitude as yet again, his wife sat in the jeep in the driveway and refused to come inside. That is her prerogative, but I am cheesed off about it right now because the kids totally notice. This time when their dad was trying to explain that she doesn't feel comfortable, I finally spoke up when it was just he and I in the room and mentioned that she was more than welcome and a lot of time had passed, so it was too bad there was still a problem. My sense of justice is offended as this is the woman who had an affair with my husband, but she won't talk to me or come into my house. (not that I said THAT outloud- that would be pointless). Anywho, enough about that. I know what I need to do- I am going to go open up The Word, as I want to be comfortable and enjoy the evening with everyone while at hockey. I want to have the courage to speak to her even if she does not respond, and to do it graciously and not get annoyed about it. This is not a big problem, she is a nice person who I think is quite insecure. She treats my children well- I just wish we leave the past in the past so I communicate with her better about my children. Oh well, there are much worse situations, but thanks for letting me bend your ear about it.
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Update- I am back- it was rather uneventful. She made herself very scarce, which I do think is a shame as it doesn't have to be this way. When she was out in the arena area, my ex would go sit with her somewhere else, and when she choose to sit in the waiting room or something (which was most of the time) he would come chat with our group. That must be a little stressful, but all went well. She walked past me once, but I was absorbed in disciplining my 5 year old, otherwise, I would have liked to have said "hi", to show that I was not in whatever head space she is in about the whole situation. I just want to move past this. It has been 9 years!!! Oh well, I guess the important thing is that the kid's dad and I can hang out and get along. It hasn't always been that way. For a long time I couldn't be anything but matter of fact and wooden around him. Thank you Jesus for showing me that we ALL deserve grace! Oh, by the way, I did what any mature 34 year old in need of moral support would do- I called my MOMMY! She and my dad came to watch with me!

If you could pray for my daughter while she is now away for a few days with her dad- she was anxious before she left about getting homesick- please pray for peace for her.