Saturday, October 18, 2008

Pork Chops and Proverbs.

Just wanted to check in quickly between cooking doughnut holes and pork chops. My two oldest are in the kitchen fighting cause one is trying to read and the other is whistling and singing in a loud squeaky voice. Neither will back down, so this should get interesting... Oh, golly, my daughter decided to walk away, progress is being made! Hallelujah! Little M just fell on his head while doing couch gymnastics, and J has been sent to his room for ignoring me and stabbing egg cartons with sharp knives while I was comforting hurt Little M. Everyone is a little tired from a busy week, I guess. The Skipper is at an all day hockey coaching course- I appreciate that he works long hours all week and is willing to give up a weekend doing that. He has a lot of years on the ice ahead of him with the three boys, who seem to be hockey crazy, no matter how much I pump up soccer. Must be the good ol' Canadian blood flowing through their veins!

Anyhoo, just wanted to give you an update on my day on non-complaining yesterday. I decided to make a conscious effort after seeing my husband shake his head the other day while I was being a martyr. It seems that my self centered list of gripes does not cause him to admire all my hard work! Instead, it has the opposite affect. So, without saying anything to him, I decided to make a conscious effort to go cold turkey on the complaints. So far, so good. I think this is a good attitude to just adopt forever, so I will better be able to assess the results in time. Until then, I am keeping a close guard on my heart, as the Word tells us the it is the "wellspring of life". I want positive words to spill over, therefore, I need to clean up my attitude and thoughts on a regular basis.

Anything that you know that you need to give up? Come on, talk to me- I need adult interaction or I will be trying to do somersaults on the couch soon with Little M!

7 comments:

Katie said...

I was very lucky today that my class ended at 1:30. How long was the Skipper's class? Did he know last night that the class was 4 hours? I sure didn't! I thought it was 7 - 9! It was a bit of a shock when I heard people talking 4 hours!!!

I am going to try not complaining or telling Mr Coffee just how much I have done all day. We'll see how it goes...

Kate said...

I need to stop being impatient. It's just that nobody does things as quickly and perfectly as I would like. Hee hee!

His Girl said...

Hey, Sis! I totally took your lead and didn't complain yesterday- of course it was a FANTASTIC day, so I am not sure I get credit. Today, I could hear this little nagging in my head every time I was complaining,so I think the residual effects are good!

Great idea!

Cindy-Still His Girl said...

I need to stop being so stinkin negative and critical of my hubs. I am terrible lately!

Growin' With It said...

i need to stop being lazy. how's that for confession. i won't even go into the details on it either!!

oh and your title made me hungry. i'm beginning to wonder if you are the cooking/baking queen up there. it often sounds like you have something yummy mixing up. very motivating for this lazy mama!

Unknown said...

There was a Bible study I was involved in one time long ago. One of the many gems I took away from that class was this point: It doesn't matter what you are doing, be it cooking, washing dishes, picking mud out of your children's shoes. If you are doing it with the right heart and good intentions, God notices what you are toiling over and sees it as an act of worship. Even if you never receive a word of thanks, even if your family completely takes advantage of the way you lovingly serve them or try to improve yourself, etc. Doing it with the right heart makes the difference, and God honors that. That made a huge impact on me at the time, and is a lesson I have to remind myself of often. Thanks for reminding me of it!!

Miriam said...

some days I think I need to give up the computer!!

This week I'm totally FORCING myself to stay focused on housework, etc. MORE and the computer (blog reading) less. Why are blogs so darn good and fun and enlightening and so on and so on to read???

Really, though, I'm trying to stay more focused. And on that note... I'd better go finish getting in the groceries that I have left sitting out in the car while I came in here to "check real quick". Yeah, right. I'm goin', I'm goin'!!